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Crusty
| Posted on Monday, May 02, 2011 - 10:56 am: |
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In February, I posted how my life had undergone major changes without warning in a very short period of time. I got a lot of helpful responses, and I really appreciate all the assistance that I got. Things have changed again; this time for the better. My wife and I have been seeing a Couples Counselor, and we've found a way to reconcile our differences. There's a lot of work to be done on both sides, both individually and together; but we are both willing to work at it 150%. I feel kind of funny posting about my personal problems here on Badweb, but this past weekend, on the Burger Run, a few different people were asking me how things were, and I realize that I should let folks know that Terri and I are a couple again, and hopefully will remain that way. We both love each other, and want to be happy together Judging from the positive reactions I've gotten from the folks who know us both, I think that they feel the same way. As I said, Thank You for all the support I've gotten. It made a very trying time a bit easier to endure. |
Hootowl
| Posted on Monday, May 02, 2011 - 11:03 am: |
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That's great news. Marriages are worth saving. |
Cyclonedon
| Posted on Monday, May 02, 2011 - 11:05 am: |
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Great news Crusty! Thanks for posting. I was thing about you and Terri, glad to hear something positive. Wishing you two the best! Have a great riding season. |
Whistler
| Posted on Monday, May 02, 2011 - 11:12 am: |
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Very good news. Thanks for the positive update. |
Etennuly
| Posted on Monday, May 02, 2011 - 11:28 am: |
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Good to hear some happy choices have been made. I wish you both the best! |
Fahren
| Posted on Monday, May 02, 2011 - 11:31 am: |
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Not all marriages are worth saving - sometimes it really doesn't work out between two people. But I'm very glad things are working out for you both. Good luck with the work ahead. (Message edited by fahren on May 02, 2011) |
Andymnelson
| Posted on Monday, May 02, 2011 - 11:33 am: |
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Awesome! Seriously, I'm super excited for you guys. The road ahead is LONG, but I believe it is well worth it. The "saving grace" is our relationship has always been when we decide that it's not about me, it's about loving my spouse. Always. I don't know what your religious stance is, but our church just started a series called "The Knot" this weekend. AWESOME message, and you can watch it here: http://www.eaglebrookchurch.com/pages/page.asp?pag e_id=38656 (click "show details" under "The Knot"). Our small group has been watching Pete Wilson's series called "5 Things That Will Destroy Your Marriage" and that has been SO good! They do their videos as podcasts, and you can subscribe here: http://itunes.apple.com/podcast/cross-point-church -video/id301415948# My point- I LOVE being married! But it takes work Best investment you can make. |
86129squids
| Posted on Monday, May 02, 2011 - 12:08 pm: |
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Good on ya both... Keep on keeping on! |
Rkc00
| Posted on Monday, May 02, 2011 - 12:11 pm: |
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Crusty, It was a pleasure to hear to good news this weekend. Hope to see You and Terri on the next ride together. Had a great time hanging and riding with you again. See the two of you soon. Dino Run anybody???? After all the Great BBQ food we had this weekend I am not sure I can eat this week. Here is one of you:
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Court
| Posted on Monday, May 02, 2011 - 12:19 pm: |
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This is spectacular news! |
Buellhusker
| Posted on Monday, May 02, 2011 - 12:27 pm: |
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Great news Crusty. Wishing you and Terri all the best and forever together. |
Ourdee
| Posted on Monday, May 02, 2011 - 12:28 pm: |
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Maybe youz tooz can come to HC, maybe not. Made my day to read this today. So happy for both of you. |
Slaughter
| Posted on Monday, May 02, 2011 - 02:16 pm: |
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The three of you have a lot of friends and well-wishers. Consider Sunny and me as two more! Good news to us all and all the best to you guys as you are pulling it back together. |
04buell
| Posted on Monday, May 02, 2011 - 02:20 pm: |
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YAY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! From both of us! |
Wolfridgerider
| Posted on Monday, May 02, 2011 - 02:41 pm: |
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I would have to say that was the second best thing I've heard in the last 24 hours.
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Eboos
| Posted on Monday, May 02, 2011 - 03:36 pm: |
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I am glad that I missed the bad news. You and Terri are good people, and it is a pleasure to have known you both. |
Blake
| Posted on Monday, May 02, 2011 - 04:32 pm: |
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You've been in my thoughts a lot lately. Great to know I can finally put a stop to that. Seriously excellent news. |
Reindog
| Posted on Monday, May 02, 2011 - 04:47 pm: |
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It is cool that you considered Badweb as part of your family. We may have disagreements sometimes but that is what family member do. A huge part of Badweb is a loving place. Good luck to Terri and you as ya'll will find a path together now. |
Ft_bstrd
| Posted on Monday, May 02, 2011 - 05:36 pm: |
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That's great news! |
Svh
| Posted on Monday, May 02, 2011 - 06:11 pm: |
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Fantastic to hear! |
Lemonchili_x1
| Posted on Monday, May 02, 2011 - 06:41 pm: |
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That is very cool to hear Crusty, and thanks for sharing with the "family" Did someone say Dino run?!?!? |
Ulynut
| Posted on Monday, May 02, 2011 - 07:18 pm: |
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Right on. |
Whisperstealth
| Posted on Monday, May 02, 2011 - 07:29 pm: |
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Happy, happy, Joy, Joy Dance! Good hear! Now, do you still have the Uly? And/or can you get it back if you don't? |
Kenm123t
| Posted on Monday, May 02, 2011 - 07:32 pm: |
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Great news hope all goes well! |
Johnnylunchbox
| Posted on Monday, May 02, 2011 - 07:33 pm: |
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Congrats Crusty. That is really good news. |
Prior
| Posted on Monday, May 02, 2011 - 08:04 pm: |
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Great news Crusty!!! |
Rotzaruck
| Posted on Monday, May 02, 2011 - 10:01 pm: |
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Oh Man! It's nice to hear good things are going on! You can do it! |
Xodot
| Posted on Monday, May 02, 2011 - 10:50 pm: |
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Don't know ya but I'm happy for ya bro |
Buellerxt
| Posted on Tuesday, May 03, 2011 - 12:41 am: |
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Great news, Crusty. Great news! Focus on Terri and have a great marriage. |
Smoke
| Posted on Tuesday, May 03, 2011 - 06:31 am: |
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best luck and wishes to you and Terri, John! tim |