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Ulywife
| Posted on Tuesday, August 29, 2006 - 04:16 pm: |
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How often is he supposed to check-in with his PO? If the police aren't taking an active roll in this, maybe a plea to his PO can help you with the cell phone usage and tracking. Don't know if they can help, but it's worth a phone call. |
Slaughter
| Posted on Tuesday, August 29, 2006 - 04:37 pm: |
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Yabbut even if it's a GPS receiver, it can only tell you where it's been AFTER you find it and get the information. It is NOT continuously transmitting position. |
Nytrashman
| Posted on Tuesday, August 29, 2006 - 04:49 pm: |
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I too will keep an eye out in West. Co. NY, which is just north of the city. i have also e-mailed my daughter who is in OC Maryland and her family will keep there eyes open as well. good luck to you and i hope your daughter is safely home by the weekend. George |
Rasmonis
| Posted on Tuesday, August 29, 2006 - 04:55 pm: |
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I spoke with the PO yesterday, his next appointment is in October and he's missed one already. He left a message on her voicemail indicating he had to move out of the area because he was being pressured by friends to use coke (the white powdery kind) and he was having problems with his girlfriend. Here's a better picture of him (the best I have).
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Damnut
| Posted on Tuesday, August 29, 2006 - 05:08 pm: |
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I'll keep an eye out in the MA area. hopefully I see them........ can you say blanket party??? |
M1combat
| Posted on Tuesday, August 29, 2006 - 05:14 pm: |
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I believe that as long as the battery in the phone is good it is indeed sending out it's tracking info (by way of triangulation from cell towers... They constantly update their signal strength bars ). What kind of phone? What service? I need make and model. We can get into it . |
Blake
| Posted on Tuesday, August 29, 2006 - 05:55 pm: |
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Sometimes it's best to keep your fat mouth shut. You are WAY out of line. Slinging derision at Ramon and his wife? Extremely bad form, no honor, no class, no character. |
Buellgirlie
| Posted on Tuesday, August 29, 2006 - 06:35 pm: |
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folks. plz save your opinions and attacks. if you can help, great. if you dont agree, thats your right as well but there's no need to attack a fellow badwebber who's worried about his daughter. D |
Bads1
| Posted on Tuesday, August 29, 2006 - 06:51 pm: |
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Ramon you are going through what all trying good parents wish,hope,and pray they never go through and hope we have done a good enough job that it doesn't. I have 2 children and my youngest 11 year old girl. I don't know what i'd do in your situation. I hope you and your family are doing there best to work through this and the safe return of your daughter. Please do not let people of this board stray you away because of idiots like Fullpower. He has no business saying what he said nor what he's talking about. Your in my thoughts. Man...... this sucks!!! |
Glitch
| Posted on Tuesday, August 29, 2006 - 07:21 pm: |
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We will keep this thread on track. This is not about what y'all think or think you know. This is about finding someone's daughter. Start another thread for your opinions. When I get back I'm removing ALL posts that have nothing to do with the topic at hand. No opinions were asked for. Don't give any. If you want to help, please do. If not either move along, start your own thread, or simply STFU. period |
Glitch
| Posted on Tuesday, August 29, 2006 - 07:37 pm: |
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Raymon, and Kay, keep the faith. I'm here for ya, and am glad to help any way I can. My only problem is I'm in Atlanta. But I'll help as best I can here on BadWeB as well. |
Percyco
| Posted on Tuesday, August 29, 2006 - 07:58 pm: |
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Sending photos and info to friends in Hagerstown Md. Will keep our eyes open here in NY state. I have a daughter too and this sends chills down my spine. The little prick will be back in jail soon enough.....just watch and see ! Good Luck ! |
Blake
| Posted on Tuesday, August 29, 2006 - 08:10 pm: |
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Thank you Glitch. |
Johnnylunchbox
| Posted on Tuesday, August 29, 2006 - 08:24 pm: |
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Just posted a link to this thread on www.Concours.org The Concours Jihadists are a fine bunch, and will keep their eyes and ears open. Wishing your daughter a safe and speedy return. |
Rasmonis
| Posted on Tuesday, August 29, 2006 - 08:35 pm: |
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Thanks to the mods for cleaning up the thread, we missed the comments and are grateful. It must have been bad from your reaction. M1: here's the cell phone info: Cellular One Phone number: 240 409 1525 Make LG Model: 1400i FCC ID: BEJL1400 IMEI# 010617-00-375268-9 SN#601KPQJ375268-USA-P40 We'll be contacting the feds tomorrow the phone company and the National Registry for missing persons. The support provided here speaks volumes as to what it means to be a member of the Buell/Badweb family. You guys/gals are the greatest we couldn't have asked for better friends during this time. -Ras (Message edited by Rasmonis on August 29, 2006) |
Johnnylunchbox
| Posted on Tuesday, August 29, 2006 - 08:39 pm: |
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Rasmonis - don't forget about these guys if you haven't contacted them already http://www.ncmec.org/ |
Toona
| Posted on Tuesday, August 29, 2006 - 08:45 pm: |
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Ramon, I'm guessing you have already been thru any computer she may have had access to, checking both emails and browser history. Is there any kind of trucker/18 wheeler network that we can get this info into their hands to look for the car? Same goes for truck stops - Pilot/Flying J/Loves etc. My heart hurts very much for you and Cathy, you both were instantly in my prayers and will be until Randies safe return. |
Rubberdown
| Posted on Tuesday, August 29, 2006 - 08:46 pm: |
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Eyes open in Central NC. Stay strong. |
Stingaroo
| Posted on Tuesday, August 29, 2006 - 08:51 pm: |
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Have eyes up here in Western PA. I am passing this on to some friends back home around Gettysburg, Carlisle, and Harrisburg. Keep the faith! Brian |
Fullpower
| Posted on Tuesday, August 29, 2006 - 09:15 pm: |
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A young lady of my aquaintance went AWOL once, 22 years ago. she ran off to Alaska with me, we have been married, happily, for 20 years now. Her parents were less than impressed at the time, but we are good friends now. A young lady in America can CHOOSE with whom she wishes to associate, it is less than respectful to imply that her choice is unwise. you will parent as you see fit. |
Rum_runner
| Posted on Tuesday, August 29, 2006 - 09:15 pm: |
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im watching north western pa. called up some people in erie down towards pittsburgh and on over to youngstown area. gave info to all my guys at work. |
Jerzydevil
| Posted on Tuesday, August 29, 2006 - 09:22 pm: |
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Ramon, my eyes are open in Jersey as well, I work for the county, so I'll get the pics and description to a few friends in the sheriffs dept. and they will send it around to the local and state pd's |
Eboos
| Posted on Tuesday, August 29, 2006 - 09:31 pm: |
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It would be a matter of respect to both the girl and her parents to take the necessary steps to earn their trust. I was less then ideal in my girlfriend's parents eyes, but instead of running off with her, I stayed and earned their respect. My girlfriend and I have been together for 3 years now, and her parents and I are very close. |
Rasmonis
| Posted on Tuesday, August 29, 2006 - 09:43 pm: |
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Fullpower, That is all fine and dandy we never said she couldn't date him and allowed the relationship to go on for over a year until we realized the kind of guy he is. We got tired of watching her cry almost every time she was on the phone with him. He would be at the very least verbally abusive. He had her up by 5:30 am so she could leave and be at his house by 6:30am. If her phone rang and she couldn't get to it she'd be in a panic. If she was running late to go to him, same reaction. She was not allowed to be brought home by male co-workers when her car was out of commission. It all starts with control my friend. He would have her come to his house to make sure it was clean, his laundry was done and dinner was on the table (let me remind you she's 17y/o). Add anger issues and a short temper and you have all the ingredients for a future batterer. In addition he stopped coming by our house. When she came back from a church retreat we couldn't be there to pick her up because he would get mad. Sorry, but that sounds like a piece of 5hit MF to me and not the kind of guy I want to see with my daughter let alone anyone else's. Oh, did you miss the part where he got arrested for aggravated assault and has an impressive police record? He also lost his under the table job (he has never received a real paycheck) due to his anger for freaking out on the company owner. Guess who's paying for his drugs? Her only responsibility in our house was to be home by midnight 7 days a week and to not fail any classes. Sure anyone can date whoever, but as long as she is a minor and living under my roof it is my responsibility as her father to do everything in my power to protect her and make sure she has food clothing and receives an education. Thanks to this guy she's now a high school drop out. Once she's an adult she can do what ever she wants. She knows this, we have discussed it ad nauseum. If none of this sounds alarming to you then I guess we know the kind of guy you are too. If you don't want to help fine, go read something else. (Message edited by Rasmonis on August 29, 2006) |
Pwnzor
| Posted on Tuesday, August 29, 2006 - 09:58 pm: |
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I can notify all the weighmasters in the western 11 states if you think it would help. I don't think they'd drive through any truck scales but there are lots of officers that come in and out of the scalehouse. Hopefully they haven't come that far. BTW mods thanks for cleaning up the thread. (Message edited by pwnzor on August 29, 2006) |
Kccyclone
| Posted on Tuesday, August 29, 2006 - 10:14 pm: |
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Ras, I'm almost at a loss of words...As a parent of a daughter I can't even begin to imagine what you and your family are going through....The KCLW guy's will do whatever we can to help...we aren't close to the area but we will do whatever you may need help with...Just let us know what you need.. Fullpower "A young lady in America can CHOOSE with whom she wishes to associate, it is less than respectful to imply that her choice is unwise. you will parent as you see fit." And this kind of crap is respectful from you to a man worried about his daughter? |
Fullpower
| Posted on Tuesday, August 29, 2006 - 10:39 pm: |
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my apologies to rasmonis, and family. I hope your daughter is safe, and able to contact you soonest. |
Rasmonis
| Posted on Tuesday, August 29, 2006 - 10:40 pm: |
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Fullpower, I apologize for my last two comments they were unnecessary. It helps to have the full picture. Here's a little more information. If anything, we are fair. If I could remember, I could count in one hand the time we as parents used the "because we say so and that's it" line in our parenting. There are no topics too sensitive to discuss in our house. We openly talk about everything and encourage questions of any type from our girls. When we found out Randie was having sex, we immediately had her see an OBGYN Dr. for a check up and to be placed on birth control. Everything is straight up no BS in our house, we don't have time for it we enjoy living our lives. When we found out Rob didn't complete high school we offered to pay for hie G.E.D. training and examinations. He was always welcome at our house and we encouraged him to come for dinner so he could have a home cooked meal. When we "drew the line" last Tuesday, we explained to him why (see above) and initially forbade him to date Randie. After some thought however, we decided that this would not address the real problem here - his anger. So we sat down Friday evening and gave them both the rules they were to follow until Randie turned 18. In a nutshell, she was to focus on completing her required courses for high school before she turned 18, and maintaining her responsibility to pay for birth control and auto insurance. They could continue dating as long as he sought treatment for his problems. We did all the research for him (found free clinics or clinics that charged based on income) and also offered assistance if he needed it. The part he didn't like was that he needed to provide proof that he was receiving weekly treatment before her could see her. I served 8 years in the ARMY as a 91G Behavioral Science Specialist/Mental Health Tech. While serving in LARMC for Social Work Services and presenting cases for the Family Advocacy Case Management Team I had the opportunity to interview, and provide treatment for many families with members who suffered abuse. I'm not just pulling this stuff out of my ass. -Ras |
Iamike
| Posted on Tuesday, August 29, 2006 - 11:00 pm: |
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Please be very careful with yourselves. I remember reading about a recent similar case out East that didn't turn out well at all for the parents. If this person is as unstable as you say don't leave yourselves open at all. I don't want to read about you in the news. |
Tq_freak
| Posted on Tuesday, August 29, 2006 - 11:10 pm: |
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Ras- you and you fam are in my prayers and I will be keeping my eyes peeled for her and this scumbag here in FL..... you said beat ass maroon / primer chevy baretta with maryland tags Correct? |